Disclaimer: This is not medical advice, just a mama sharing her experiences. Always consult with your healthcare providers. Also, reader discretion is advised because I'm really getting into it. 💜
Believe it or not I spent most of my life educating myself about the early stages of motherhood (the expecting stage). From being an older sister to watching countless episodes of 'A Baby Story' on TLC and other similar docuseries... not to mention the YouTube mommy bloggers sharing their birth stories and who were my secret besties; I soaked up ALL the motherhood stories.
Despite all this information, there was quite a bit about pregnancy, labour and delivery and post partum recovery that really took me by surprise. Here goes a few of the things that really stood out:
1. Extreme pregnancy cravings. I knew pregnant women craved food and sometimes lots of food or even non food items like chalk. However, I never anticipated that I would have strange food cravings particularly for spicey food (I'm talking about really spicey food). While pregnant my perfect lunch was extra spicey jerk pork with ginger beer. As harsh on the stomach as that sounds; It was definitely the heat for me. I later found out, via mom forums, that the soda part was actually a common pregnancy craving/favourite.
2. Epidural surprises. I have to tell you that pain management has surprised me for every single Labour and Delivery I've had. The first issue I had with the epidural was that I didn't want one. It was just the idea of someone messing with my spine that completely had me against it. Mentally I prepared myself to ask for non intrusive pain medication and to take deep breaths and sing. But let me tell you, contractions are no joke and especially if they are induced ones. After singing every song I knew I started 'singing' for the anesthesiologist to give me that epidural.
Once I got comfortable with the idea of an epidural, in my other labours I had issues with the epidural wearing of. Didn't know that was a thing. I remember one time feeling for pain and getting a top up from the anesthesiologist or a redosing and waking up not feeling anything from my neck down. While it was great not feeling pain...there was the panic of 'is this numbness permanent?' I literally had to pretend push my baby out without feeling a thing but eventually and thankfully, feeling returned to the rest of my body. I had never been so happy to walk until that day!
Then I've also had the experience of the epidural wearing out and being so far along that getting more epidural was out of the question.
In summary, you may plan not to get an epidural and change your mind. You may get too much and not feel a thing . You may get an epidural and wears off so you still end feeling the whole thing.
3. Morning Sickness after giving birth. Well it's not really morning sickness but a range of medical conditions can cause you to feel nauseous and even cause vomiting after giving birth. From Hyperemisis Gravidarum (HG) to GERD to gall bladder stones...or from just the organs in the body readjusting themselves as the uterus shrinks and contracts. Having some Gas-X or antacids on hand may be helpful.
As always, consult your health care provider before taking anything over the counter and especially if you are breastfeeding.
